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EyesOpen's avatar

My daughter did not have comprehensive care of her underlying comorbidities. She demanded testosterone and breast removal, which she got with ease. No meaningful questions were asked of her. No therapy/counseling occurred for trauma, autistic trait influence, a mental disorder, eating disorder and much more including a ruptured parent-daughter bond and a shattered family due to her decisions and behavior.

My story is not unique. Thousands of families have not been helped by "psychology" professionals, who seem to think they are saving our kids from their parents with their ideological bias that only harms our children and our families. Real, holistic, comprehensive care needs to return to the profession. It may take more skills than affirmation only, but actually caring for kids and their families might be a worthy goal instead of pushing an ideological, medicalized pathway to kids.

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Dee's avatar

I have long believed, even before gender ideology touched my family, that a person being transgender was due to them internalizing stereotypes and expectations about their sex that they felt unwilling or unable to meet. For example if you tell a little boy that boys don’t cry, don’t express emotions, are always tough and aggressive, then a boy who is by nature sensitive may feel he can’t meet that definition and therefore isn’t a boy. In fact, he is a boy, and it’s the stereotypes that are wrong, not him.

How different would it look if psychologists and therapists were helping their patients understand this, that feeling uncomfortable with acting out a role is natural, and that the solution isn’t to act out a different role, it’s to stop acting, recover from the shame you feel for failing to live up to toxic expectations, and learn to accept yourself as you are? Stop trying to turn yourself into someone you aren’t, whether that’s by acting out the expectations of your birth sex, or rejecting the self who couldn’t and then acting out the expectations of the opposite sex.

It’s a very immature belief that being tough and liking sports and rejecting beauty and emotion are the definition of man, and dresses and makeup are the definition of woman.

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