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Hippiesq's avatar

My own experience when I brought my then almost 14-year-old daughter to one of these places shortly before Covid hit (which worked out because I didn't have to argue with my daughter about why we were never going back) matches this training. She shyly asked the person at the counter what name she was supposed to put on the form. The lady loudly proclaimed: "Use your chosen name, as we will NEVER use your DEAD NAME!" She had literally just met my daughter 2 seconds earlier, but somehow knew she had a "dead name." The counselor was no better. I asked him how many people who come to this place end up following through with medical interventions. He said that basically everyone does. He then explained so patiently and sweetly that, although this may seem surprising, and he would have thought not everyone would follow through himself, in fact, everyone who comes here knows who they are. He explained that this made sense to him once he realized it was just like being gay - which he was - and so, of course, these people were very sure of what they wanted. I just smiled politely, and left as quickly as possible, a sickening feeling in my stomach. There was no point having a debate with someone so steeped in ideology - and I knew we would never be going back.

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Hazel-rah's avatar

The "no assessment needed" is key evidence of legal liability.

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